We did go to Italy.
I didn’t learn Italian ahead of time.
In fact we went separately. Steve flew there. He flew ahead to find a place for us to live and some work for me to do because I was going to be “putting hubby through,” so to speak. I had a trunk full of our household goods and at that time it was cheaper to go across on an ocean liner and take your trunk than it was to fly. So he flew and I came later.
I learned a little Italian on the ship. I was on the Italian lines. I met up with him in Italy there and then I took some Italian lessons when I was there. Basically we learned Italian from just living in the culture.
I remember. . . .
[Heidi]: The ship came into Venice.
[Steve]: No, that was the second ship.
No, that was the second time we went back. The first time it came into . . . um.
[Steve]: No, uh, the other side of the peninsula.
[Steve]: Florence, no, um.
[Heidi]: I mean, um, Genoa.
Genoa! We came into Genoa.
[Heidi]: And then you trained across.
[Heidi]: To Padova.
Yeah. We did a lot of train travel in Padova.
[Eric]: While he was in medical school, you were working?
So then he found me a job in a Berlitz school, teaching English. So I taught English in a Berlitz school.
[Heidi]: Mom did burlesque to bring in the money.
And I learned a lot of, you know, I learned a lot of Italian teaching English, just because of the way the Italians would speak English. It helped me to learn how things were said.
[Heidi]: Twenty-six years later, I moved to Italy and lived in Venice and taught English in a Berlitz school and learned some of my Italian.
[Virginia]: Are you serious? Oh, Heidi, that’s awesome.
So after three years in Italy, he took an externship at Saint Elizabeth’s Hospital in Brighton. Came back for a period of six months. I came ahead. I was six months pregnant with Dawn. I came ahead and Dawn was born in the States at that hospital, Saint Elizabeth’s. He was not—were you here for the birth? You were back by the birth time. OK.
Then we went back to Italy and the second time we went back together in a ship. That’s when we went to Venice. On our way there, we stopped in various ports. So we were in Malaga, Spain. We stopped and visited Pompeii and we were in Naples and visited Pompeii.
[Steve]: We stopped in Sicily.
We did. We stopped in Sicily. And then we went up the Adriatic and stopped in Greece.
[Steve]: In Greece. We went to Greece.
We stopped at Piraeus. And then we took a day trip to Athens. And then we went over to Venice.
That gave us a chance to see a lot of places in Europe and when Dawn was baby, we traveled—when we had vacation times, we had a little VW Bug and traveled to various places, to visit places in Italy.
[Heidi]: You went to see Aunt Betty and Uncle Harley.
And we went to Austria also because we had met a couple on a ship—he was Austrian and she was American. They invited us to go to Austria to visit them at Christmastime, so we did a few things like that.
[Kimberly?]: Aunt Betty and Uncle Harley.
[Steve]: That was up in Switzerland. We had gone also, among other things, we saw where The Sound of Music was designed in Salzburg.
[Victoria]: Yeah. In Austria.
They lived in Salzburg, so they took us around to all the sites in Salzburg.
We traveled to Switzerland several times and met up with Aunt Betty and Uncle Harley there and Sandy and Debby. They would get apartments for missionaries in various places in Switzerland where we would have vacation time. So we would drive through the fog out of Italy, because it was usually very foggy at Christmastime.
Then I can remember one time when we were driving up in the mountains in Switzerland. Steve was not feeling good. Did you ask me to drive? And I was like. . . .
[Dawn]: Dad was in the back seat.
Dad, he would look out the window and see that it was a drop-off like this and he just closed his eyes and hoped we didn’t drop off.
Anyway, so we had a lot of good memories from those years. We were there for six years. Came home in 1974.
story told by Marcia (Steve’s wife) to the family reunion gathering on January 10, 2014 with additions from Steve and Heidi (Steve’s daughter) and interjections from Virginia Gorman, Bruce Kindberg, and Eric Kindberg (Lee’s children), Dawn Harrell and Kimberly Duncan (Steve’s daughters), and Victoria (TJ Ramey, Kathryn’s son’s wife), transcribed by Dawn Duncan Harrell (Steve’s daughter)
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- Any other Smith and Steve Duncan family stories from those Christmastimes spent together that you’d like to tell?
- Would someone please tell the flaming fondue table story?
- Can someone relay the peanut butter story? Didn’t Harley and Betty come to Italy for that story? What was the context?
- How about going to France to help build the camp one summer story?
- Sandy? Debby? What do you remember of those intersecting times?
- Why would Betty have stayed behind in France at Steve’s graduation? Children? Other duties? Finances?
- Any other stories from the ocean liners? How about the diapers-in-the-hold story from the second crossing?